Hindsight

A lot of times we make decisions in our lives based off of impulses and later face the consequences. I've been accused before of over analyzing things, but some times I feel that's what actually balances me out. I know that each decision that I make is not something that I just thought of and now acting on it. But I'm learning everything that glitters definitely isn't gold. We often look at some one else "green grass" and automatically wish that we could have and some of us will even go out and get the grass...but what we don't realize is though some one's grass seems greener, they might have put in a lot of work to get it that way. Hmmm...just something to ponder.


I guess this all comes down to hindsight....

Hindsight...yea..I know it's pointless to look back at say oh I would have did this or I would have said that, still...hindsight...just look at your past relationships..how many of them would actually change some things...yea probably all! You would probably have a few that you wouldn't dare enter again or some that you would changed what you said or even what you did. It all comes back to that ONE DECISION....to say or not to say...to do or not to do! The right decision could have saved you from a lot of sleepless lonely nights...the right decision could have prevented an argument which led to the breakup which was followed by a broken heart. I could use this example for jobs, income and any other thing in life. ONE DECISION can make a total difference. If dead people could talk, do you realize how many of them could have changed that ONE DECISION that was made that caused eternal rest? Or how many felons locked behind bars, just wishing they would have gotten out the car or never left the house? Yea the list goes on....Now the twist to that is hindsight isn't always BAD. So don't get me wrong...I can look back at some decisions I did make and I'm absolutely happy with them and their results.


So it's just easily said like this...don't make a decision based on the right now...think down the road...days, weeks, months, and years from now...will you in one those instances look back and wished that you would have never did what you did...I know its easier said than done because we are a microwave generation...just try it...and maybe, just maybe your hindsight won't be that bad!